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Get Your Shit Together and Stop Saying You're So "Busy"!
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with that "busy" person feeling rejected, even when there was nothing to be rejected from?
"Busy" is just a socially acceptable descriptor for touting your self-importance because "busy" implies that you are "in demand" for doing lots of things (i.e. productivity). Which by extension implies that your worthiness remains wrapped up in your output rather than inherently belonging to you. Your inherent worthiness has nothing to do

Scotti Quam
Sep 283 min read


But are you ACTUALLY behind at work?
Let's admit it. We all know the feeling. There's that first day after a long holiday or right after you've gotten back from vacation-- before anyone even says anything, you've already concluded that you're behind. Whether it's emails or laundry or PTA announcements, you've somehow concluded that you have to play catch up because FOMO has got you in its grip. These are real problems. But they also have REAL SOLUTIONS.

Scotti Quam
Sep 143 min read


You Need a Vision. You Need Altruism.
If we don't have vision, we don't have direction. If you don't have direction, you can't meaningfully prioritize. If you can't meaningfully prioritize, your time is passing you by. Time is finite. Have vision for how you want to spend it. Chances are, your most meaningful time is some manifestation of altruism.

Scotti Quam
Aug 314 min read


Ditch the Mask: Build a Life That Honors Who You Really Are
If you’re reading this, you’re probably ready for more than just checking boxes and chasing someone else’s idea of success. You want a life that feels meaningful—and, let’s be honest, that means a life that feels like yours. That’s where authenticity comes in. But here’s the truth: living authentically isn’t always easy.

Scotti Quam
Aug 183 min read


Unlearning the Hustle: How I Found My Way to Slow Living (and How You Can, Too)
Welcome to Slow Living Solutions, nestled in the storybook town of Staunton, Virginia. If you’d told me a decade ago that I’d end up here—crafting a life and a business rooted in intentionality and legacy—I probably would have laughed. And yet, here I am. The journey wasn’t linear or predictable. Honestly? It was the opposite. But that’s the magic of choosing to live on purpose.

Scotti Quam
Jul 63 min read


Feeling Stuck in Mid-Career Burnout? Here’s How to Rewrite Your Legacy
You’re feeling it again, aren’t you? That restless, gritty, discontented itch that whispers from deep within your nervous system. The one that tells you this professional dream you were sold on the road to adulthood might actually be a bill of goods. You’re not alone. So many mid-career professionals find themselves feeling stuck here—rolling through the motions of “life-ing” because… well, what else are you supposed to do? You’ve got bills to pay, creature comforts to mainta

Scotti Quam
Jun 294 min read
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