The Hidden Cost of Chasing Approval Over Building Social Equity The answer often lies in where we focus our energy: Are we seeking approval, or are we cultivating authentic social equity?

So, how does the idea of legacy actually show up in our daily lives? One word: social capital. Whether we admit it or not, we all care about what others think of us. It’s not vanity—it’s hardwired. Social capital is the currency of human connection. It’s how people think and talk about us, both when we’re present and when we’re not. And it matters.

We talk a lot about intentional living here at Slow Living Solutions—how to design your days, craft your legacy, and protect your energy. But today, I want to zoom in on something that’s at the core of it all: relationships. And to get there, I’m borrowing a little wisdom from physics.